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    Pediatrician Discussion Checklist

    Appointments are short and it's easy to walk out having forgotten the thing you most wanted to ask. This sheet gets everything on one page before you go in.

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    What is the Pediatrician Discussion Checklist?

    The Pediatrician Discussion Checklist is a printable one-page sheet to fill in before an appointment about constipation, stool withholding, painful pooping or accidents. It walks through the current situation, the symptoms worth describing, what you have already tried, the questions parents most often wish they had asked, and a notes box for the visit itself.

    What's on the sheet

    • A 'current situation' box: how often your child poops, what it looks like, when this started
    • Symptom checkboxes in plain language: straining, pain, blood, holding, accidents, tummy pain, appetite
    • A 'what we've tried' section, so you don't repeat the same conversation
    • Questions to ask, including about stool softeners, what to expect, and when to come back
    • Space for notes and the plan you agree on
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    How to use it

    1. Fill in the first three sections the evening before the visit, ideally with your poop log beside you.

    2. Tick the questions you care most about and add your own. If you only get through two, make them the two that matter.

    3. Describe what you see, not what you think it means. 'Hard pebbles twice a week, cries, hides behind the sofa' is more useful than 'he's constipated.'

    4. Write the plan down in the notes box before you leave, including what would prompt you to call back.

    5. Keep the sheet. At the next visit it shows what changed.

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    When to contact your child's pediatrician

    Contact your child's pediatrician promptly if you notice any of these.

    • No bowel movement for 5 or more days
    • Blood in the stool or on the toilet paper
    • Vomiting, fever, or a swollen or very painful belly
    • Stool leaking or soiling in a child who was previously trained
    • Weight loss, poor appetite, or a child who seems unwell
    • Pain or distress that is getting worse rather than better
    • Anything that worries you — you know your child best

    Poop Peace is educational. It does not diagnose or treat. If you are worried about your child, contact their pediatrician or local emergency services.

    Sources

    This printable is informed by the following pediatric and children's bowel health resources.

    1. American Academy of Pediatrics — HealthyChildren.org. Constipation in Children(opens in a new tab)
    2. Journal of Pediatric Gastroenterology and Nutrition. Evaluation and Treatment of Functional Constipation in Infants and Children: Evidence-Based Recommendations From ESPGHAN and NASPGHAN(opens in a new tab) (2014)
    3. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (UK). Constipation in children and young people: diagnosis and management (CG99)(opens in a new tab) (2010, Updated 2017)
    Written by Poop Peace editorial teamMedical review: pendingWhy?Updated October 8, 2026

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